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These six sapiosexuals set the record straight on what it means to get turned on by a big brain. Woman A: Sapiosexual is a way for me to label and understand myself and what I want in a romantic relationship. Woman B: I am attracted to people who are intellectually stimulating. There is nothing sexier than sitting ont a stoop at 4 A.

Woman C: To me, a sapiosexual is someone who values an intellectual approach to the world, is a critical thinker, and has an insatiable curiosity in fot, whether it be in work or in play, and is attracted to the same in a Looking for a date not sex 9 1 11. Man A: Being sapiosexual means to me that it's really hard for me to have dtae night stands because generally speaking, I'm not really sexually interested in someone until I've seen that 'spark' in their personality, regardless of their level of physical beauty.

Man B: It means that my perception of Looking for a date not sex 9 1 11 intelligence is one of the most important factors in my attraction to them.

If I find a person physically or otherwise attractive, but they seem stupid, I lose nnot attraction. If someone is not so physically or otherwise attractive, but they seem smart, there's a good chance I'm turned on. Man C: It means that an intelligent partner is necessary for me to have a happy relationship.

Others may prioritize intelligence, just as they may prioritize a sense of humor or warmth. Probably when I was 20 and had just left my high school boyfriend and entered the college hook-up scene. I was Looknig young maybe grade sfxnit, I only stumbled across the word and Beautiful ladies looking orgasm Des Moines Iowa about five years ago.

Probably That girl explaining why Lord of the Flies presents an unrealistic and pessimistic view of humanity? Hot AF. I first realized I prioritized things differently in high school. I had a lot of crushes on a lot of teachers. At the time, I assumed I liked older women. They were women who were incredibly passionate and fiercely intelligent. If I am consistently seeing someone the topic generally comes up.

Whether it's in the context of past relationships or even the ever-so-subtle "Why do you even like me? Many dates say they are as well, but their behavior rarely matches.

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I don't necessarily speak to partners about it though I do make it known why I'm usually drawn to them. I definitely express my attraction to partners' intellect. I want them to know so they talk smart to me. Looking for a date not sex 9 1 11 would I not encourage something I find sexy?

Not always in so many words, at least not initially. It forces me to narrow my focus and my search. When I'm single it can be a huge pain in the ass honestly. It often takes time to see intelligence.

It is often challenging to meet men who are as intellectually charged, or not intimidated by me. Most men say they want an intelligent and beautiful woman, but several have said to Lookimg that I am too Looking for a date not sex 9 1 11 and too beautiful, and they felt inadequate.

However, if I were less intelligent or less attractive, or had less desire for others to be intelligent, the relationship would have worked out. I find myself normally sticking to a small roster of hookups, because in general it's pretty hard for me to meet eligible women with reciprocal interest that tick all the necessary boxes, TBH.

I would say it makes dating easier in a lot of senses. At a certain time in my life, I would have said it makes dating difficult, but now I appreciate being selective. I can tell within minutes if a first date is the kind of woman I can get along with.

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Throw the facts right back at me, point out the hole in my argument. Please teach me a new perspective or a new topic in general. If you keep me engaged in a conversation that is moving forward and kind of working out the holes in each other's arguments, that's hot as hell. Many Looking for a date not sex 9 1 11. Intellect, kindness, loyalty, integrity, physical fitness, professional motivation and success, wit, humor, and humility with a splash of hubris. When someone has that zest about them where they are both knowledgable and passionate, and unique — then it's on.

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I want someone who can discuss with me the relationship between Lookjng and social inequality, or who can explain why the cause of my leg pain might actually be pressure on the sciatic nerve in my back. Intelligence manifests itself in many different ways. No one is perfect.

But I need someone who can speak about what they care deeply about.

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That to me shows intelligence. Conversation, especially in person. Someone who can think on their feet and spar verbally makes me swoon. We could be having a talk about politics, but they find a way to apply a book their reading into the mix.

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That takes intelligence. By how they deal with conflict, I think that intelligent people approach adversity by trying Fargo sex clubs understand it.

Screaming "wrong! Are they intrigued by what they know fod know they do not know? Are they arrogant about their intelligence or are willing to acknowledge gaps in their understanding?

I always judge the latter as both more secure and more intelligent.

Oh, I feel like that's something you can generally figure out in the first 10 minutes of knowing someone. I just like them to be able to hold a stimulating conversation. Ses a thousand times yes. We can talk out literally anything because we both just enjoy understanding new perspectives. Knowledge, and the process of seeking it, become a shared passion that parlays into foreplay, both mentally and sexually.

It doesn't need to be explicit, but I do think with my particular Looking for a date not sex 9 1 11 and lifestyle that someone would have to be to want to date me.

I fot to think that the people I date find me somewhat intelligent, but I'm not actively looking for sapiosexual people. Plenty of people value intelligence.

I would and I have. I have before, it's not as much that he wasn't intelligent enough, as it was a condescending quality. No one knows everything, and being intelligent necessitates that understanding. I can only be told that you're a genius so many datee before I need Mature women in Utah see some application beyond your GPA or alma mater.

I have.

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It is painful, but if someone is not intellectually stimulating, given my passion Looking for a date not sex 9 1 11 knowledge and learning, I am left with a dearth of topics to connect with them around and Ladies wants nsa Embden feels lonely.

I would like to think so, but I'm constantly proven to be less intelligent than the guys I'm seeing, which is honestly swx by me, if anything I'm the one reaping all the benefits. Consider if you met someone wildly attractive but they were incredibly mean to you.

The basis of your argument [shouldn't only be] your intelligence level. Back up your statements with some logic, if you don't have any support, then you're the one who needs to be lectured, not me.

This comes down to the application of knowledge. Pretension is intelligence gone wrong, though a truly wise person wouldn't be outwardly pretentious in the first place.

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I think pretentiousness is all in how you use your intelligence vs. If someone is trying to impress me by acting smart I will be sez turned off. When I tell people, they tend to assume that I fetishize intelligence. That we are pretentious or pseudo-intellectuals. I can definitely come off aggressive at times and although I'm generally Lokoing flirting, playing devils advocate does not Looking for a date not sex 9 1 11 come off as humble or down-to-earth.

That we are square, boring, or judgmental. When people feel outsmarted or insecure, it is not uncommon for them to become dismissive. I think one of the biggest misconceptions is that sapiosexuals are ugly?

I'm not looking for someone pretentious. I like to feel Bradford pa wife swapping Swinging and have brainy conversations, but not all the Looknig.

Sometimes I just want to watch Survivor and not discuss the effects of reality tv on my psychology.

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